游泳和生活的道理

想要学会游泳，其实很简单。放松， 你就会游泳了。那想要一个快乐的生活呢？这也很简单。放下，放下执著的人，事，物， 你就能拥有一个快乐的生活。但这看似简单的道理又有多少人做得到呢？这看似简单的道理却是人们一直奢求，恳求的。那到底什么才是快乐?何谓快乐？快乐的定义又是什么呢？对我而言，快乐是能吃，能玩，能旅游，能自由自在的。但对其他人而言，快乐也许就是身边人都能在一起，过着平淡的日子。 每个人多快乐的定义都不一样，但最重要的是，他们都想要快乐。放下，放下，放下吧，唯有学会放下你才能拥有一个快乐的生活。

Drama

My life is too dramatic. Everyone playing a different roles. It sound fun but actually I am tired of it already. I prefer a friendship that can tell everything out,share everything. Is it because the group is too big? But for me even u are angry also u should said it out why u are angry, why u are sad,why u act like that. U didn't tell people, they won't know it. They has no time to guess what are u thinking and  feeling. Maybe am too tired of this drama already. If one day, I don't care it anymore . It's not because I never care, just that I give up to know it already.

放弃，也是一种选择

许多的事情，

总是在经历过以后才会懂得。

一如感情，

痛过了，

才会懂得如何保护自己；

傻过了，才会懂得适时地坚持与放弃，

在得到与失去中我们慢慢地认识自己。

既然默默相守已失去意义，

莫不如立即斩断心中那情思屡屡，

放弃你所珍爱的，

期待的，

重新选择。

生活并不需要这么些无谓的执着，

没有什么就真的不能割舍。

学会放弃，

生活会更容易。　　

放弃是一种勇气，

但放弃决不是对自己的背叛，

放弃自私，

放弃虚伪，

你就会变得高尚，

你生活的天空将是晴空万里。

放弃一段飘渺的感情，

你就会变得塌实，

如释重负，轻轻爽爽。　　

放弃，不是怯懦，

不是自卑，

也不是自暴自弃，

更不是陷入绝境时渴望得到的一种解脱，

而是在痛定思痛后的做出的一种选择。

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas 2013!!! This year we celebrate Christmas's eve by walking around in the city, shopping and selfie with Christmas tree. Although it just an ordinary outing by we all enjoyed it very much. Do you believe that four of us was running around the Christmas tree just to look for a kid to spray bubble on our face. The most funny is Kee Boon. She keep telling the boy to spray her but the boy feel scare and try to escape from her. Lastly we when we just know that the boy do not speak chinese when heard that his mother calling him. But after that the boy seem to get what she say and he will spray bubble when saw her. Moreover, Hsiu Chin is so funny. She go in my room to search for the christmas present after knowing that i had prepared a christmas present for them. 

Christmas present from my lovely ex-roommate aka "da jie"

 Christmas eve dinner

21st's Birthday!!!

Hahaha..my birthday had passed about 2 weeks already but today suddenly feel like wanna write something about it. Really thanks all my friends that help me celebrate my birthday. It had been such a long time all of us didn't hang out together, i think since last semester we all not longer going out like this. Just didn't expect that such gathering will be on my birthday. Hahaha..thanks Kar Ann for contacting Kee Boon to set up the plan, thanks JT for contact Phooi Ling to "steal" my picture from my phone and let me see the msg sent by YY,thanks YY for doing that meaningful CD and thanks Tammy's idea to sent Ah Moo up to pick up me and do not let me go in my room others for you all had done. Although i had been know all this thing but i just don't want to say it out, because i know if i say it out will make u all sad that plan had failed. But one surprise that i never expected is all of u wear pink shirts..haha. 

Hahaha... love this picture very much..^^

Another group photo...we all love to take picture.

Haha..forget about what had i wished???

 Thanks my course mate for treat me this seafood dinner..

 

The only picture that took together with them on my birthday...><

Besides that, also thanks Phooi Ling for starving because of accompany me "waiting" Kee Boon to pick up us for dinner. Then, also thanks Hsiu Chin aka Maria that really good in lying me that u really wait for Kee Boon to pick u up at tennis court because i really worry that u still don't know the plan and some more thanks for hiding the tumbler in my pillow because i really didn't expected that my present will be at there.Although Kee Boon already told me that my present will be Starbucks tumbler but i thought u guy will just put at my table. And lastly sure is my best ex-roomie that put my plane after say wanna treat me dinner to celebrate my birthday(i know this is part of the plan and sorry for blame u), and thanks for the red velvet cake and stay with me that night for pillow talk, for me u also such a gift from heaven. I really happy that you really read and remember what i wrote to you. 

Red velvet cake that bought from Lof bakery shop...

Birthday wishes that need me to decorate it myself...hahaha

presents from friends.

前几个礼拜看了一个很有启发的短片， 内容是告诉我们二十岁不可以等到三十岁才开始。很有意思，二十岁就是疯狂期，想着什么就敢敢来，想去哪就去哪，想做什么就去做。不要说等，等这，等那或想这，想那，那我们永远只有等。很感谢她让我勇敢的做自己，勇敢的争取我想要的。我不再是那怕事的小女孩了，我要追求我想要的。

好久没写部落格了， 我开学已有一个礼拜了，

我现在已是大二生了，时间过得真快，课业给我的感觉是好像越来越难，好害怕自己应付不来哦。

好多事都不一样了，以前一同走路去上课的伴，一起居住的人和房都改变了。

说实在的我还不习惯这一切的改变。

不习惯晚上睡觉前没有人跟我说话，不习惯房间突然只是我一个人。

人不是说射手座的人很花心的？其实射手座的人不是花心只是她还找不到那个能让她心动，让她佩服的人，让她愿意以最真诚的心对待的那个人。

只要射手座的人认定的人，他们都会愿意为你做任何事，对你不离不弃，只要你快乐。

也许我不该想那么多，因为也许今天你对那个人有好感，愿意为他做任何事，

但你永远也不会知道下一秒你还会有那样的感觉吗。

应该享受那种感觉.